by Barbara Rimkunas
This "Historically Speaking" column was published in the Exeter News-Letter on Friday, October 22, 2021.
Not all graves are sad. Not all deaths are tragic. Wandering through a cemetery can tell one a great deal about a community. Gravestones are mini-biographies of the people laid to rest – births, deaths, relationships, affiliations, and military service appear in inscriptions and artwork. To the modern eye, the gravestones of previous generations, particularly those in New England, can seem very harsh. It helps to have an understanding of the people and their practices.